Have you noticed that when people are writing about going to the next level, stepping up, and going into their new life, most of them speak about feeling fearless, “just doing it” etc.
What they don’t tell you is how there were moments of discomfort, apprehension, stepping into the unknown, having to face that, although they have trust, it’s not known.
You only hear the success story once the decision has been made, and the discomfort is glossed over picturing the person as a hero who was able to easily move through the deep pits that can sometimes be part of the journey and they have accepted their new reality and their new selves.
(It’s the way of telling stories on social media…. and it makes me gag. And recently, I’ve noticed that the angle has shifted… going on social media in tears, dreadful hair, clothes, all in an effort to “seem” authentic and sell …thankfully as a psychic I can mostly see-through which are the authentic stories and which are just great acting)
It happens more when change is swift and big.
A total upheaval and re-writing of their lives.
At that transition point, whether it takes a long time or a short time.
I’ve recently had this with myself and with clients, it seems to be a time of great movement and awakening of consciousness globally.
And when this happens at such a global level, there can be lots of pain, upheaval, catastrophe even.
It reminds me of the “Tower” card in Tarot, complete destruction to create anew… but the “Tower” card retains it’s bottom half, often when I work with myself or clients we seek to recreate completely, only the underlying soul essence/ foundation is carefully retained and experiences honored and learned from.
Well, what if there was a simpler, more peaceful way?
My most recent huge up level I talk about in my Facebook group “Soul Leaders” , you can have a watch when you get the chance, I can certainly tell you that as amazing as it is, as I go through it, I am also left feeling uncertain, scared even freaked out!
At that point…. is where there is the choice…. to move ahead or turn back to your comfort zone.
There are also up levels in relationship, business, or in our health even.
(I recently made a health choice to completely overhaul my diet, and the adjustment period is …well… an adjustment)
And often, when it’s in business and you are being more visible, you might need to redefine yourself to match the next level vibration you are stepping into.
Friends may drop away, family may no longer understand you and you’ll need to start connecting with and getting closer to a new peer group.
This can also mean that for a while, it’s lonely and uncertain.
So how can you resolve and get through this period?
For me, especially when I decided to step into my power totally, my family thought I was dabbling, being silly, “it’s a lovely little hobby” they would say while sniggering under their breath at the “utterly ridiculous” notion that I could or would be able to create my business by design and believe what was totally alien to them.
I had already stripped my friends down as I changed through simply not having anything in common with them, but now, I had to trust that the new people coming into my life could be transition people that had been brought to me to help me through the change until my true soul family would start to show themselves.
I personally don’t often do tears, not because I don’t feel deeply, I feel really deeply, I just don’t do tears…
Instead, the modalities I’ve studied allow me to go through the necessary changes with more ease than traditional ones such as coaching, counseling, etc.
And through my own framework of inner work (The Joyful Abundance Blueprint), I have been able to deeply move through change while honoring my inner process.
Here are 5 tips to help you move through change in an easier way:
1. GET GREAT SUPPORT!
If you have a partner and family who support you, have them share your visions, AND also know when to keep some things sacred between you and God.
2. PROCESS EMOTIONS!
Choose a way to quickly process the emotions that come up for you, fears, blocks, old limitations otherwise you will end up in that “quicksand” for ages and your vision may never materialise. (personally, I love ThetaHealing for this or my own Joyful Abundance Blueprint)
3. VISUALISE!
Keep visualising your new level, make it as real as you can including bringing in the intense emotions that you will feel. The emotion/feeling is the vibration of the vision that will attract it to you.
(PS I have a really cool process that makes this part of up levelling super easy and expansive)
4. TAKE ACTION AND ALLOW YOUR BODY TO PARTICIPATE!
Do something in the physical realm that sends the universe a signal that this is what you have now, this allows your body to participate. If you ignore your body, it may participate in less than optimal ways.
5. GET A MENTOR OR COACH!
When there are really big shifts, open up to the idea that it can be necessary to work with someone who has either walked the same path or is skilled at coaching/energy work/mentoring to help you really know, feel and embody your new beliefs, behaviours, etc.
This 5 tips alone can help you to grow through up levels in an easier way, with grace and flow.
You can message me if you are looking for support on how to uplevel in an authentic and way that honors you fully.
I’d love to hear your honest experiences of up-leveling, please drop them below and enjoy !!
