Just cos’ they profess to be spiritual doesn’t mean they are nice !
Just saying !
There is so much spiritual snobbery and love and light going on that sometimes it’s easy to forget the “human” side.
It’s taken me ages to finally get it through me that, just because I might be nice to someone does not mean they will be nice back.
It’s a hard and sad lesson, and I’ve learnt this lesson the hard way over and over.
When you have a kind and big heart, it will get hurt unless you
Set boundaries,
Know how and when to let people in and when to let people ‘walk on by’
Understand that some people will use you to further their own situation without any remorse
Understand that people are at different levels of spiritual evolution
Know that if you choose to keep your heart open, that you may get hurt.
So what can you do about it?
Well, you can’t of course do anything about other people’s need to be who they are,
YOU CAN Be much more choosy about who is in your inner circle,
If you are helping someone out, protect your own energy and never give from an empty cup.
Fill yourself up so much with love and regard for yourself
that you pick up the warning signs early enough.
TRUST, TRUST, TRUST your own intuition (especially if you are connected to source energy and are an intuitive and psychic )
NEVER take someone else’s word as total truth
As an intuitive and psychic myself, I have had to learn the hard way that sometimes the warning signs I’ve picked up on are DEAD ON.
And as much as I wanted to talk myself out of it, because I just wanted to believe everything was light, love and unicorns, it always came out as I’d sensed it.
Does that mean I don’t trust anyone or be around these people?
No
And I know that there are different shades of human behaviour and I get to choose which shades I allow into my sphere and if I feel something OFF, I have a choice as to what to do with that.
Sometimes it’s my lesson to learn, and other times it’s my lesson to learn to SET THE BOUNDARY.
If any of this resonated with you and you are having issues working this out and setting your boundaries, you can contact me for a healing session on this topic.
Let’s put the POWER back in your hands.
